Hey!
I saw your web site and wanted to add my two cents. AM is NOT the biggest scam, Bernie Madoff sealed the fate on that title.
I joined up for a short while after two years off and realized that many of the women who are members on Ashley Madison usually join because they are curious, and not necessarily seeking to have an affair but are satisfying their curiosity about the subject. I have talked with many of these curious women who say that they are often times approached by men who completely offend them with sexual innuendoes and inappropriate remarks and it ruins the experience for them and causes them to delete their accounts before ever connecting with someone.
The fact that many men don't understand that women in relationships are not going to sabatoge their lives over a man/men who are degrading towards them. I have talked with many REAL women on Ashley Madison, and plan to continue to use the service for many more years to come. In fact the men who don't know how to approach and treat the women on the website properly, gives the rest of us a bad rap.
I thought I would give the female perspective here.
As a female on AM, you have NO idea what it's like on the site for us. A woman simply cannot respond to everyone, there are so many men wanting to talk to you. It's overwhelming. It's not a scam.
I joined in May 2010. I communicated with several men, ultimately chose two to meet for drinks, really clicked with one and we have been very happy together ever since. A very good friend of mine had a similar experience. She met someone quickly and easily.
My point. It's not a scam. It's just that the men are really aggressive and that leaves us women to only respond to those who really catch our attention. Be a gentleman and stand out from the crowd by reading our profiles/sending us gifts etc.
IE
I agree with the comment above. I joined 2 months ago and chatted with many and met 2. A lot of the guys on there are so aggressive - yes we know why you are on the site but to send naked pictures of yourselves - come on.....also to start off so blatant and describe all your sex moves on the first chat? Us women need a little romancing first. Also, both guys I met with wanted to do it then and there...i hardly knew either of them. Well i think my luck has changed, I've been chatting with a guy for over a month, talked on the phone and we are meeting this week. He has taken the time to get to know me a little better and I really enjoy our sexy chats (he waited until he knew I was comfortable.) I can't wait to meet him and yes I just might, do him then and there.. and give him all that he wants - over and over again!!!!