Since December, 2009 I have spent less than $100 and hours on Ashley Madison hoping to hook up with the right person. It took an incredible amount of patience and finally I was able to get one person to meet over a coffee. It did not lead to having an affair... YET, but it kept me interested in continuing my membership with them. It sucks that it takes so much work to meet a woman do but it seems to pay off and is probably worth the effort to avoid getting caught.

I am not some old, fat slob who should have trouble hooking up.  I am 37, 5'6', 190 pounds and handsome.  She was 45 5'10' and about 250 pounds. She was by no means a hottie, but she was sweet. I will let you know as soon as I do have an affair on Ashley Madison.