I have been running this little website for a few years now and I feel like I can definitely give you a sincere and honest review of Ashley Madison. I have also been on the website Ashley Madison for quite some time and I have used the service for personal purposes regardless of this website. The reason this website does exist is simply to collect other person’s opinions on Ashley Madison.
I have received numerous emails from people saying they did not in any way wanted to be published on the site and neither wanted to write a review but still wanted to let me know how their experience on Ashley Madison was. As of today I can say one thing, there are people who succeed and people who do not succeed on Ashley Madison. Do I have the solution or the secret to success on Ashley Madison? I wish I did.. I do not..
All I know is, people that do fail on Ashley Madison are the ones that are most likely to write negative reviews of the product because obviously they paid for a service and got nothing out of it.. and I completely understand their perspective… I have spent hundreds of dollars and for months I was not able to connect with anybody.. I was pissed too.. Usually though, the people that end up having success on the site to whichever extend are less likely to even talk about the product on the internet… All I am trying to say is, all over the internet we can find negative reviews of all products, but also we need to keep in mind how many people are using the service/product happily and don’t openly talk about it… Ashley Madison has over 13 million members, I hardly think we can find 13 million bad reviews written on the internet… The reason for this is simple, If I am having lots of affairs, I am most likely not to talk about it… I am going to use the service, do what I do, hookup and leave it at that.. why would I go on the internet and flaunt and risking of getting caught?
I am not saying in any way that I think Ashley Madison is perfect…absolutely not, some of their practises are rather suspicious and leave me wondering… all I am trying to say is, they have been around for a very long time and with 13 million members they must be doing something right and I am sure lots of people are having the time of their lives..
I don’t think it is about the $$$$$ if those who join understand what is happening here. I rather think it is about the perceived personal connection(s).
It is somewhat like gambling here, either you hit 21 in black jack, or you merely beat the dealer by one point. Others will lose. People who don’t realize this are naiive so it’s no wonder they become angry..
I myself have had success on AM. First, about me, I am considered attractive, and wouldn’t have a problem with hooking up, but I’ve had a problem in the past where a person on the side wanted more and then tried to break up my wife and I. It’s a messy business and so I thought I’d use AM to find someone that would respect discretion.
I hooked up with a woman. First with chatting and then a date that got a little physical, and then a full hook-up. After that she started feeling guilty and we broke it off.
The fact that I was successful, though, doesn’t negate that it’s a scam. There are aspects of being on the site that come off as strange. I practically always use the wink with “wink me back” so it’s no big deal when someone doesn’t respond. But then on some profiles you’ll get a response from a very attractive person as a collect message. You have to pay to open that message and then again to respond to them. And then they don’t respond after that. That’s a little strange.
Then I’m constantly getting chat requests from very attractive women in far off cities. I never accept these because the credit cost is astronomical. These chat requests themselves are a little strange.
So it seems that there are real people on there and then there are what appear to act like scam bots. I’m not sure of their purpose, maybe it’s to spam or otherwise, but if spamming is the purpose, then I would expect more activity in some cases. The only other explanation is that they are built into AM.
I hate u… u broke up my marriage.. Of course i found out… Its cruel n mean to trick people especially a spouse… FUCK U AM.
You should learn to make love like a black man watch porn with lack men.
You are responsible for the failure of your marriage. Stop blaming a website for your bad decisions.
So…I guess we can consider this a positive review in regards to if Ashley Madison works or not.
I’ve had a fair amount of success with AM. A couple of dates that went nowhere, a total of four women (over maybe three years) who sealed the deal. One turned out. To be a little crazy, one was a bad match for me but two have been great fuckbuddies and I’m still happily in touch with both and regularly seeing one of them.
But this is becoming less and less easy, I think, as AM fills up with bots and professionals. Anyone who “enjoys the finer things in life” or wants to “be spoiled” or even ticks the Sugar Daddy box I completely ignore. Nothing against prostitutes but I have self-respect. Anyone who puts a face photo up is either a prostitute or a fake account or a crazy woman.