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Married Dating is it worth it? My Ashley Madison experience

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Story sent in by Martin, from Atlanta GA

I signed up on Ashley Madison a few weeks ago purchasing the basic $49 dollars package thinking it would allow me to make it happen. When I called the Ashley Madison customer service I was told the service was based on credits and that there was no monthly fee, it simply worked like a prepaid cellphone. I bought 100 credits thinking that for the price wasn’t bad at all and that would allow me to keep going for a few months. It turned out that 100 credits don’t get you very far on Ashley Madison since married dating turns out to be a lot harder than I thought. See married dating is tricky and I was foolish to think that this website would make it happen just like that. To make the story short I purchased after the first package another two 1000 credits packages. I got very frustrated since I spent so much money on the website and all I got was very weird suspicious messages either from cam girls or escorts wanting me to pay them for sex. I do not think there is a special secret on having success on the website, I just know that there are real women on the website and as hard it might be to find them it is definitely worth the price tag it comes with. I have spent over $500 on the website and even though I think it is a little expensive for a dating website, I think that having an affair is by itself risky and expensive so the price of the website quite explains it. I have had to this day multiple one night stands and I have an ongoing affair with this gorgeous woman who I fell in love with. Am I gonna remain married? Yes I wanna remain married and have the same life I had. But this turned out to be the best of both worlds I am having an affair, and I am married with the mother of my children. If you ask me does Ashley Madison suck? No, it doesnt. It’s expensive yes, does it have very tricky ways to charge you, YES. It gave me what I was looking for, to have an affair. I hope my review will be useful to other people in deciding wether they should register or not.

Newbie on AshleyMadison tells the experience

Story sent in by Erika from Vancouver, BC

Hi guys, I just registered on AshleyMadison and I really do not have an opinion on whether AshleyMadison is a scam or not. I can say one thing, and this is more of a rant rather than a review of the website. I hear and read men always complain saying that Ashley Madison is a scam and they never receive messages back! Guess what, your messages are half of the time completely unrelated to what I am looking for. If I say I am looking for a romantic dinner

and a walk on the beach do not message me saying that you have a 10 inch penis because that is definitely not what I am asking you and neither it is a turn on. Guys know this, dating is hard, married dating is even harder. Having an affair is risky and I am obviously not going to risk everything having an affair with some person that cannot even read my profile and understand it. So this is the lesson, if you wanna get responses make sure you read the profile, and understand exactly what the other person is looking for.

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My AshleyMadison experience!? Not too good

Story sent by Truman from Toronto, ON

Hi guys, I found this website looking for reviews regarding AshleyMadison.com and I decided to tell you about my experience so far on the website, even though I have been an AshleyMadison member for only a month or so. I am not gonna get into all the details on why I registered on Ashleymadison, obviously like everyone else I am looking to have an affair. The area I live in luckily has a lot of women that are looking to have an affair and so I thought this would make the whole search a lot easier. So far, a good 60% of the female I have contacted

turned out to be either some sort of weird scam or prostitutes looking to fish for new clients on the website. Now, the experience so far hasn't been amazing, but I do have to admit that every time I called to report a “suspicious” user they always returned the credits that were used for the conversation. Am I satisfied with the website? Not entirely, but as I said I am still way too new on the website to judge wether it works or not. I have been exchanging emails with one woman that seems to be normal out of all the craziness.. we will see in the next few days.. I will definitely write back to let you know how the whole “have an affair” thing went. Cheers.

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AshleyMadisonScam.org a new testimonials website

Hi all, I found a new interesting website from another AshleyMadison member. His name is Anthony he emailed me over the weekend asking me if I could share his story and also let people know about his website

. I really like his cause since It is very similar to mine. Feel free to send him some stories as well. Here is the link: AshleyMadisonscam.org

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Ashley Madison? It worked for me

Story sent by Brandi, from Minneapolis MN

Hi John, my name is Brandi and I thought it would be cool to give my opinion regarding this so hated/loved website. Let me tell you AshleyMadison worked for me and I am going to tell you how exactly AshleyMadison works for female members. I signed up about 2 months ago and even before I posted a picture of me I was already receiving ridiculous amounts of messages. All I had on my profile was a brief description of my situation and what I was looking for in an affair, which was pretty standard, I was looking to have a discreet affair. Now let me explain how this felt for me, within minutes from signing up I was receiving so many messages that I could barely keep up with responding and replying. Now you people can say AshleyMadison is a scam and that profiles are false. That I cannot guarantee in any way, but one thing I can tell you, there are real women on the site, and j

ust like men they are looking to have an affair. For a woman the feeling you get on the website is completely different and somewhat overwhelming. I had numerous coffee dates with different men who were in my same situation and who wanted discretion as much as I did. Needless to say, so far Ashley Madison has been a lot of fun, and I have met some very cool men. I have yet to find my perfect affair, since none of the men I have contacted or met quite wanted a long term thing, all they wanted was a one night stand. Now I am looking for a long term affair.

And please men, when sending messages start reading profiles, there is no worst turn off than a person that does not even take the time to read a woman's profile. I understand we are all looking to have a discreet affair, but please read what the other person is exactly looking so that there is no need to have endless conversations that lead nowhere. If you ever wanna find me on AshleyMadison my username is *********** (I have obscured the nickname to protect the user) I hope you have lots of affairs.

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AshleyMadison is not a scam in my opinion

Story sent by Jeff from Las Vegas, NV

I found this website and I thought to share my opinion regarding AshleyMadison since there seems to be a lot of mixed reviews. I signed up on the website about 6 months ago and I started buying the 100 credits package. I almost used up all my credits to respond to message I had received before I bought credits and I had a few credits left to initiate new contacts with females I was Interested that were close to my area. After that I purchased 3 times the 200 credits package that allowed me to contact a few more females that had interesting profiles. Here is the truth about AshleyMadison, I am pretty sure there are bogus profiles or profiles that are not longer being used to you could fall into wasting credits on non-active members, but putting enough effort into it can definitely get you some results.

I met with about 6 females just for coffee nothing major or crazy, a simple meetup coffee just to see if we had anything in common and if the other person was interested. Out of the 6 females I contacted I had 2 AMAZING affairs. Now one of the 2 Affairs turned out to be just a one night stand but the other hookup instead turned out to be a great friendship and a more stable sort of affair. Now I am not here to tell you that it is easy to have an affair, but that if you are willing to put in enough effort you can easily meet some amazing married women that are on the website looking for an affair as much as you do. I cannot say that AshleyMadison is a scam, it is expensive yes, but I did really have a lot of fun thanks to it, and as I speak I am still having an affair with a wonderful woman I met on the website.

Good luck to you all!
JEFF

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'Sad wifes' won't contact Nick. Are these married women real?

This poster says he's done with Ashley Madison…but if the women aren't responding, I have to wonder what he's sending to them. If his grammar here is any indication, he's not winning any points in the literacy department.
“i dunno if Ashely Madison is a scam, but I didn't get any women responding to me over an entire month. it seems like there are hundereds on there… lots of sad wifes who seem ready for sexual encounters… but none of them contacted me. Im done with this….but, what am I'm going to do about this? My wife just isn't

doing it for me anymore.right?”

downlow.ashleymadison.com

- Nick in Toronto
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From DM: Ashley Madison – Cautious Women. Another Site: Aggressive Women

My name is Discrete-Male and I joined Ashley Madison about six months ago. I started off with buying the “Affair Guarantee package” since it was the best deal for the money. I have used my credits wisely and still have quite a bit remaining, after all 1,000 credits goes a long way. In all honesty, I decided to take a break from fishing for a while on there. Because my credits have no expiration date, I decided to try out another website that I found. I decided that it was foolish to not be able to try multiple genres of websites out. I found this really cool website that deals with “mutually beneficial arrangements” , called… you got it, “Arrangement Finders”.

arrangementfinders.com

I honestly couldn't believe how many gorgeous and aggressive women were on the website looking for stable successful men like me. Ashley Madison's website is all about having discrete affairs, but because of that aspect, the women are highly unlikely to post a picture or fill out their

profiles, so it appears all of the profiles are fake. It is really no fault of Ashley Madison's that women are extra careful about having affairs, in fact I applaud them.  The women are very selective in finding a male and since they are in marriages, I understand that they are not going to risk their marriage for a man who brings nothing more to than table than what she already has at home, or even risk their marriage for someone like me who does have plenty to offer. I have had success on Ashley and it has been worth the wait.

I am a young, athletic, and professional married man who decided that sometimes money can buy everything, and I can catch one big fish on Ashley or I can catch 20 smaller fish on Arrangement Finders. I am not a cheapskate and don't mind paying for another membership to be able to fish on both websites. I am glad I decided to move my fishing location to Arrangement Finders , it was worth the money for finding women actually interested in having a mutually beneficial arrangements with me. I travel all of the time for work and am easily able to change my profile's location to find women in each city I visit like Los Angeles, Dallas, and New York to take out for dinner, drinks, and some between the sheet fun. These women are the total polar opposite of the women on Ashley, these women are straight up forward and to the point and mean business. After all, a mutually beneficial or mutually beneficial arrangement is more like a business deal than anything else. There are plenty of websites out there, but see for yourself. I think both websites offer great value for the cost of a membership, why not have the best of both worlds?
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Is Ashley Madison a scam? Does Ashley Madison suck?

Probably the single greatest reason that I hear former customers of AshleyMadison.com call “foul” is because they feel that they were cheated out of their money by “robots” and “fake profiles.”  They generally go to the website to have an affair and find that they don't get a response or limited responses to their messages. The conclusion after this experience is that the site must be a scam. Ashley Madison has responded to the allegations of being a scam.
Some believe these complaints to be valid and other don't so I'd like to delve into a little research to help you reach your own decision.
Their response is this:
“Like any other online dating service, AshleyMadison.com isn't going to work for everyone bu

t if you follow the guidelines we lay out for you, we GUARANTEE that you will successfully find what you're looking for or we'll give you your money back.”

There are many possibilities:
  1. Other entities and people are joining Ashley Madison and using these profiles to facilitate Nigerian scams. The scams have become more and more sophisticated and complex and/or;
  2. Their tips could be correct and many users simply aren't approaching the site in the correct way to be successful. We hear all the success stories in the news and there is evidence that many don't know how to approach women on online dating sites.
Let me know what you think in your comments below or just checkout Ashley Madison yourself to make up your own mind.
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Beware the wives

Make sure the hot girl messaging you isn't doing research of her own:

I was considering joining after being a guest member for a couple of weeks and a collect email came. I decided to check their Terms and Conditions and they basically admit to everything charged on your page.  I was suspicious that a hot girl would have her picture on her profile, and it turned out she was a scorned wife trying to catch her husband doing the deed. If it looks too good to be true, it probably is!

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