I saw your web site and wanted to add my two cents. AM is NOT the biggest scam, Bernie Madoff sealed the fate on that title.
I joined up for a short while after two years off and realized that many of the women who are members on Ashley Madison usually join because they are curious, and not necessarily seeking to have an affair but are satisfying their curiosity about the subject. I have talked with many of these curious women who say that they are often times approached by men who completely offend them with sexual innuendoes and inappropriate remarks and it ruins the experience for them and causes them to delete their accounts before ever connecting with someone.
The fact that many men don’t understand that women in relationships are not going to sabatoge their lives over a man/men who are degrading towards them. I have talked with many REAL women on Ashley Madison, and plan to continue to use the service for many more years to come. In fact the men who don’t know how to approach and treat the women on the website properly, gives the rest of us a bad rap.